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Bank Those Positive Experiences!

I’ve heard we need to “bank” ten positive experiences for every one negative to keep a marriage alive. In my marriage, my husband and I have the opposite pattern of communication. I’m wondering what to do about it. Do you have any advice for me?

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Make Your Point!

My wife seems to have an incredible need to be right. She argues and argues with me, but says she is just making a point. But every time she makes a point, I feel hurt and controlled. How should I reply when she says, “All I’m doing is trying to make a point”? I think she’s trying to make me…

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A Thousand Acts of Kindness

When I’m asked what keeps love alive, I don’t think any one thing does it. Rather, I think it takes a thousand acts of kindness done on an ongoing basis. What do you think of that advice for marriages?

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Ashamed by Ashley Madison

The recent Ashley Madison leak nearly cost me my marriage when my wife discovered I was on this website. God’s Word is true when it says our sins will be found out — sooner or later. I wish it has been sooner for me. But ultimately being discovered was a good thing. Now I’m tasked with rebuilding my marriage. What’s…

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