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The Stories We Spin

My wife actually believes she can read my mind! “I know why you do what you do,” she constantly tells me. I ask her to please stay out of my head, but she won’t stop. How can I possibly convince her that she doesn’t have the right to tell me what I’m thinking or feeling?

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The Dangers of Getting Even

My husband gets angry so easily and always blames it on the other person. He defends his actions by saying, “I’m just doing what they did to me.” While he may be right, I don’t like his actions and think they just fuel his fire. What do you suggest I say to him?

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When In-Laws Are Out-Laws

My wife’s mother and I don’t get along. Frankly, I don’t like her. She meddles in our affairs, has poor boundaries, and is toxic to our marriage. Yet, my wife won’t take sides. I’m not sure what to do. Any suggestions?

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“How’s the Weather?”— and Other Superficial Conversations

My husband simply refuses to engage in deep conversations with me. We’ve had our problems, so he says he’s afraid of talking about anything that might stir up a fight. But I insist that we must talk about these issues. How can I persuade him that facing issues is better than avoiding them?

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