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The “L” Word

It’s all around us, permeating our senses. This thing — let’s call it the “L” word — is ever so

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Does Porn Hurt Marriages?

  I frequently receive emails and prayer requests from men and women who recently discovered their partner views porn. Some are

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The Power of Saying NO

We’ve all experienced that desire for the perfect Norman Rockwell Christmas – one with a beautifully decorated, immaculate home; delectable

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I’m A Sexual Being

The phrase I’m a sexual being is a cry I frequently hear from Christian wives who are living in sexless

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The Problem of “Less Than”

Recently, while I was standing in the frozen food section of the grocery store, searching for the gelato my husband

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More Than a Date Night

Don’t get me wrong, I love date nights with my husband, Jim. They provide an opportunity for us to break

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Is It Really Cheating?

As a counselor, I frequently hear these statements: “I didn’t realize I was being unfaithful!” and “Why is my spouse

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Taming Those Tense Sunday Mornings

Does this Sunday-morning scenario sound familiar? You wake up 15 minutes late, then dash about, trying to get ready on

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Stoplight Decisions

All couples make small decisions daily without consulting each other. But what about when one of you decides on a

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Can We Talk?

Remember your early dating days, when you spent hours upon hours talking on the phone or texting each other? You

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