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Ministry
Quick Reference
Adultery
Most married couples have gone through intense times of trials or
stages in their relationship. The good news is nothing is too difficult
for God to heal. Couples who are willing to pray intently about
their marriages and ask God what they can do to start improving
their relationship, will most certainly begin to experience positive
change.
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Douglas K. Snyder, author of Getting Past
the Affair
Pursuing reform involves addressing and minimizing the
contributing factors that you and your partner have identified
that previously placed your relationship at risk for an affair.
That includes not only addressing relationship issues such
as levels of conflict or intimacy, but also continuing to
work on individual issues (such as concerns about physical
attractiveness or sexual adequacy) that contributed to having
an affair.
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Michele Weiner Davis, author
of Divorce Busting
I've worked with couples who don't survive infidelity.
There are many reasons they don't, but one of the consistent
themes running through these marriages is that the person
who had the affair didn't commit to being onogamous in the
future. S/he never said, "I won't do this again, I promise."
Some people fail to say these words because they think it's
self-evident. Others don't promise this change because they're
too proud.
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Jimmy Evans, author of Marriage on the
Rock
Adultery is devastating to any marriage, regardless of
the circumstances. Unfortunately, adultery is all too common.
If your spouse has committed or is committing adultery, you
need to turn your feelings toward God and ask Him for wisdom
and strength to do the right thing, and also ask for the ability
to hear His voice in the middle of your pain and anguish.
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