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Karelina9
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Joined: 25 Mar 2007
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Location: at His feet......in prayer
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 Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:11 pm Post subject: Should this concern me? |
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My husband asked me to check his email for a response from a church member today. When I was there, I noticed a email from Classmates.com. He had sent out a message to his old highschool girlfriend. Now, mind you its been 20 plus years, but I am angry. Why would he do this? What purpose does this serve?
Should I confront him? Should I not be angry with him? With all our marrital issues right now, Im just feeling very vulnerable. Any suggestions? |
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SAM
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Joined: 03 Mar 2001
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Location: Chicago
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Understandable that you are upset about this. It's also not uncommon when a couple is working through deep marital issues and struggles that one might look to happier times - thus the girlfriend from high school. He may have had more fun and less responsibilities and cares when he was with her. Of course, that's the age that we don't have responsibilites and are care free. That in no way justifies his actions. But, it is deep cause for concern that he would try to contact a woman outside your marriage without your knowledge.
So, let him know you checked out the e-mail the other day for the friend from church and noticed something from classmates.com
If he accuses you of being nosey, then you have some deeper issued to discuss with your counselor about trust. |
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