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Vi
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 Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 8:23 am Post subject: The ultimate forbidden fruit |
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| My husaband is into anal sex. I'm not! What does God say about this subject? |
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SAM
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| Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 9:44 am Post subject: |
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There is nothing I have come across in the bible about anal sex for a married couple.
The most important thing to consider is -
1) if you are not comfortable with it, then he should respect that and not force you to do something you do not want to do. It's called honoring you and not degrading you.
2) it can cause infection by going from the anal cavity to the vaginal cavity
3) it can cause tearing and bleeding
4) it can be very uncomfortable/painful
1 Corinthians 6:12 - "Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial.
Last edited by SAM on Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:19 pm; edited 1 time in total |
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helpmejesus
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| Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 12:28 pm Post subject: |
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I did a quick google on Christian Anal Sex and found tons of sites. There are arguments both ways backed by scripture. This one makes the most sense to me. As with anything pray and you will receive wisdom.
http://www.porn-free.org/anal_sex.htm |
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SAM
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| Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:17 pm Post subject: |
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This is the information that means the most in terms of the marriage bed -
I think this pretty much says it all.
A husband who pursues anal sex against his wife's wishes is being motivated by lust, not love. Furthermore, by having anal sex, he is putting his wife at high risk of contracting various infections. His wife may agree to participate, but most likely only to appease her husband. When this happens, sex becomes more of a spectacle for the husband's gratification than a mutually-enjoyable, loving experience. As love is removed from the relationship, sex will likely require greater levels of the bizarre to produce gratification.
My daughter is an OB/GYN nurse and she has told me that women subject themselves to horrible damage to their bodies for the sake of pleasing the men in their lives who only want personal gratification instead of mutually gratifying/loving sex.
She said, "The anal cavity was designed by God for elimination - not insemination." |
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wrm
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| Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 10:37 pm Post subject: |
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| From a mans view... I personally think that it is all about self-gradification for the man. Mativated by lust not love. Very harmful. And will most certainly lead to more degrading behavior. |
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helpmejesus
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| wrm wrote: | | And will most certainly lead to more degrading behavior. |
And that is ultimatley the best reason to avoid this behaviour. The saying and one thing led to another holds true. Men are weak when it comes to sex. What enters through the eyes inhabits the mind. If a man sees pornographic content he tends to want what he sees. That is a sign of worse things to come unfortunatley. Scriptural or not, the fact remains you don't want that type of sexual contact. He is required by law, both God's and man's to respect that. |
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