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expectations - how high is too high



 
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tanza
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 18, 2003 10:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a close girl-friend who has been seeing a guy for several months now. They both have been married and divorced in the past... both divorces were due in part to infidelity on the part of their spouses.

Anyway... now they've met and have begun dating... ahem.. courting. :Wink: She has called me several times with concerns regarding him... but isn't sure if she's being too picky. I told her to make a list of "must haves" for the guy she will eventually marry... and the rest are compromisable issues. Any other thoughts on this out there?
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Janine
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 19, 2003 9:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds good to me.

Are they both believers, or only one of them, or would you say neither follows Jesus? How old is each?

How many months is several? How long ago was the divorce of each... was it only one divorce each? Any kids, if so how old & where do they live?

Just wondering these things because, while the desires of God may be unchanging, our ability to implement them in our lives is helped or hindered by the timing of different factors... and I sure cain't give my humble opinions without a little detail!

Not to mention, I feel kinda silly offering God a generic "Help them, please, Lord," not knowing any more about them. Not that God doesn't know... that's just my way.
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