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EagleScout Newbie

Joined: 13 Jun 2002 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Jun 13, 2002 1:47 pm Post subject: |
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I would like to request prayers for my self and my wife (Victoria).
We have been married 37 months and separated 22 months and now she is wanting to proceed to the divorce process again. I am not wanting to do that.
She stopped going to marriage counseling back in April.
Please pray for us and that we receive counsel, guidance and directions from God as to how/where to proceed. ??? |
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webacus Veteran

Joined: 02 Mar 2001 Posts: 613 Location: Behind you.
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Posted: Fri Jun 14, 2002 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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First, welcome to Growthtrac.
I just prayed for you and your wife. Don't give up.Continue to seek counsel on your own. Hang in there. Let us know how things progress. |
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kelly Full Member

Joined: 03 Mar 2002 Posts: 232 Location: Long Island, NY
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2002 7:29 am Post subject: |
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| I have also prayed for you and your wife and your marraige. How are things going? Is your wife saved? Please keep us posted and we will keep you in our prayers. :inlove: |
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EagleScout Newbie

Joined: 13 Jun 2002 Posts: 2
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2002 2:18 pm Post subject: |
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Thank you for your prayers and your comment.
Things continue to progress negatively. She is very hurt and trying to deal hurt back.
She refuses to want to heal. To me, she appears to want to live in the hurt.
She was the one that stopped going to marriage counseling.
I am trying to pray to understand God's will for both of us. Over 3 years ago, I prayed for God to bring us together and he did and we were married. I continue to pray for help and healing and to understand God's will.
Maybe, I'm not seeing it, since I want to restore the marriage and I can't understand how God would not want that.
Thank you, all! |
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kelly Full Member

Joined: 03 Mar 2002 Posts: 232 Location: Long Island, NY
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2002 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Eagle Scout, it would be God's will that the marraige be restored. However, He will only work in a heart that is wiiling to let Him work. Is your wife a Christian? If she is retaining bitterness, then it will be hard for God to do His work in her. It isn't that He can't or that He doesn't want to, but He works in hearts that want Him and will allow the work to be done. Keep praying for her as an intercessor, that may be her only hope. I am feeling for you as it seems this is hurting you. Mind if I ask what the problem is? Was there a re-occuring argument? A difference of lifestyle? Do you both attend the same church? Who, if anybody, is she receiving advice/counsel from? |
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