My husband has left me

luciana · Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 11:40 am Post subject: My husband has left me

I started writing you some time ago in June. I told you that my husband had left me and I was very sad. Well, I did not give up. I trusted in all of God´s promises and continued praying. I prayed almost all day. I prayed during the night when I got up and when my students were doing some exercises and I was not explaining anything, I prayed on my mind and talked to God. In my prayers I said God that I was sure He did not want our divorce and I believed He could restore anything, until my husband´s love. One day, two months ago, Carlos called me saying: "I left my girlfriend, do not ask me why, but one of the reasons was that I could not imagine me living with her all my life, When i tried to imagine her in my new house, I could only see you and our children. I am very confuse yet, but please, I like you so much. Pray for me. " I am praying for him but he is confused yet. He is going more times to my house and spending more days with the children. He has invited me to go out with him too, but the other woman is calling him a lot and saying she is in love for him and she is suffering a lot. I know he is not with her anymore, because he is living with my brother-in-law, and his brother told me that. When I call him he always answers the phone and I know he is at home. But despite of all, I am sad. Today he told me"Are you sure you would like to live with me again? Are you going to trust me again? I am going to be very honest, I like you so much, but I like Suzana too. I know I can not stay with her, but I am afraid we can not live together anymore, I am afraid that the things will not be the same anymore." Please, I am very confuse now. I do not know what to do. Do I still wait and pray for him? I know God´s time is not my time, but I am a human been not a saint and I can not stand this anymore. It´s been very difficult for me, please pray for me and give some advice. Thanks.

SAM · Veteran Joined: 03 Mar 2001 Posts: 1989 Location: Chicago

Until you can spend some time in counseling with a Christian counselor or with your pastor, I would not move back in with him or allow him to move back in with you and the children. There needs to be a minimum of 3-6 months of counseling before this would occur. This is a place where trust can be rebuilt with the help of God. Without any repentence of the part of your husband, when things get hard with your marriage, he is likely to leave you and the kids again. Maybe not this particular woman, but perhaps another one.

luciana · Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 1:21 pm Post subject: my husband has left me

ok Sam. I agree with you and I am praying to God to fix my husband. I am sure he has to know Jesus as I know and am asking God to send someone to talk about His son to Carlos or maybe make me able to introduce him to Jesus. I know Carlos maybe will have to pass for some difficult process to learn something and this, only God can make for us.

SAM · Veteran Joined: 03 Mar 2001 Posts: 1989 Location: Chicago

I will continue to pray for you and your family. God has already begun to work on your husband's heart because he is beginning to see that his family is more important to him. It is good that he is living with his brother now. I will also continue to pray for your strength and trust in God through all of this.

luciana · Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 4:04 am Post subject: my husband has left me

Thank you for your advices and prayers. Sometimes is do difficult to wait for "God´s time". Yesterday I went to chhurch and believe me I felt Jesus very close to me, but when I went to bed, I just couldn´t sleep. I felt myself very bed, I wanted just to cry and I felt something strange on my heart. Despite of everything Jesus has done, at that moment I felt myself alone, something like if I was very wrong and had understood everything wrong. I called my parents and they prayed on my bed and than I could sleep. It´s been a very ahrd time for me. Please, pray for me.

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