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Jen
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 Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 4:21 pm Post subject: My huband just found out that he has a 20 year old child |
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| Hi! I really don'y know where to start. About a month ago, my husband received a call from his brother saying that he had a picture of a girl saying that my husband was the father. My brother in law goes to meet the girl he invites the girl to a wedding and not tell my husband. My husband calls the girl and tells her not to come until we have taken a blood test. My husband had heard the rumors but the girls mother had married and said that the child as the guy she married. Well we get the test results back and the child is his. I am so hurt because all of his family new and never said anything. The young lady calls my husband surprise of the results. The girl and her mother has not told the father that has raised her. They are debating if they will tell him. This man believes that he is the father. I realyy don't know how to handle this. I have prayed and I have peace but I just want all of this to go away. Am I wrong for being hurt. I know that this was before my time. |
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SAM
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Joined: 03 Mar 2001
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Location: Chicago
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| No, it isn't wrong to be hurt. But, also remember this was 20 years ago. We all have things in our past we are not proud of doing, but your husband has a child you both may be able to influence, love, and help walk toward a relationship with Christ. It is more important than anything else and where you can hopefully pray to keep your lives focused. |
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Jen
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| Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 7:23 am Post subject: Re: My huband just found out that he has a 20 year old child |
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| [quote="fishtank"]Hi! I really don'y know where to start. About a month ago, my husband received a call from his brother saying that he had a picture of a girl saying that my husband was the father. My brother in law goes to meet the girl he invites the girl to a wedding and not tell my husband. My husband calls the girl and tells her not to come until we have taken a blood test. My husband had heard the rumors but the girls mother had married and said that the child as the guy she married. Well we get the test results back and the child is his. I am so hurt because all of his family new and never said anything. The young lady calls my husband surprise of the results. The girl and her mother has not told the father that has raised her. They are debating if they will tell him. This man believes that he is the father. I realyy don't know how to handle this. I have prayed and I have peace but I just want all of this to go away. Am I wrong for being hurt. I know that this was before my time.[/quote] |
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