in need of trust
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 Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 9:44 am Post subject: I think my husband may still be cheating on me... |
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| My husband has asked for a divorce now, and says that it's because of our problems, and not for the other woman. He supposedly only had an emotional relationship with her, nothing physical, according to him. But I recently found out something that leads me to believe that he's already seeing her, even though we havent even filed for a legal separation yet. How can I believe him? How can I trust the words from his mouth? Is it unfair for me to just ask for the truth at this point? It disgusts me to think of him being with her. She was married at the time they built their relationship, and she has a family,as well. Do they both even know what they are doing? If he is unwilling to come out with the truth, do I just forgive him? Or can I just assume he is seeing her behind my back, and just move on? This has been very hard on me, emotionally, and it's starting to affect me physically, as well. |
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SAM
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Location: Chicago
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| Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 10:15 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | But I recently found out something that leads me to believe that he's already seeing her. |
What leads you to believe this may be true?
I know this deeply hurts and all you want to be is angry at both of them.
But, the divorce papers are not signed and there is always hope. The question becomes, how much fight do you have in you and are you willing to let God take control?
It's time to sit down with him and flat out ask him for the truth. If you believe he is seeing her again - ask. You need to know.
Does your husband have any Christian men in his life who are willing to confront him about his decision?
I'm so sorry for this for you - |
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