I NEED GOD'S LOVE & GUIDANCE .... PLEASE PRAY

GodIsGood · Newbie Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 1

I am a 26 year old woman who's been married for a little over a year and found out officially about a month or so ago that my husband has a girlfriend. I am sooooooooo confused, sad and humiliated. Crying or Very sad

I cry everyday. Any time I see him, it only makes me feel more and more dead inside. The worst part about this situation is that we have a 3 year old daughter. We also recently moved to a different town and right after we moved in, he left. He has ABONDONED US! Sad

He doesn't spend nights at home anymore, all his time is spent with this other woman. He doesn't even make an effort to make sure he spends the time with our daughter that she deserves. Now my daughter asks me, "Mommy, you stay with me?" It breaks my heart everytime she asks, because it makes me think that because her father is now so distant that she thinks that I'm going to leave her also. I tell her all the time, even when she doesn't ask that question, that I love her and that I'll always be here for her. She and I are both heart broken because of how much our lives have been devastated by my husband's betrayal of his family. I am very much willing to work through this, but I feel as though he's already moved on with his life... without giving a thought to his family. Please keep my family in your prayers. We sure do need them right now. If you have any advice, my ears are open.

babycakes · Veteran Joined: 06 Mar 2006 Posts: 315 Location: In Prayer

I have lifted you all up in prayer. This is a horrible place to be. Do you have the support of anyone where you live? A church home that can help you and your daughter walk through this time would be something that could lift your spirits.

If you have not contacted an attorney, now is the time to do so. You need to protect your daughter and he should be reponsible for support for her and you. Notice, I did not say "divorce". I said to protect you and her financially, which he is obligated to do.

Sometimes, culturally, a man may not see anything wrong with the practice of having a wife and a girlfriend. This is not condoned by God when it comes to marriage.

jo · Newbie Joined: 11 Jul 2006 Posts: 10

I am so relieved you decided to write here and have room to unload some of your burdens. I have been helped here tremendously in the past and so every so often I would check in if only to share and lift up someone else's head just like someone did mine. I really feel sad for you and your child. I have lifted you up in prayer and I know that God has listened to your prayers too. Take the advice about getting a lwayer or at least consult one, you need all the help you can get for you and your daughter. Hang-on and keep praying even for your husband because God has commanded us to pray for each other even those that has hurt us terribly. God loves you and your daughter. take care.

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