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flygirl
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Joined: 18 Aug 2006
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 Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 6:54 pm Post subject: Help, My husband doesn't want to have sex with me. |
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| My husband doesn't want to have sex with me. We have been having martial problems throughout our young marriage (less than 2 years). Is he having an affair? I don't understand why he wouldn't be interested in sex with his wife. I have tried everything: nighties, romantic dinners, candles, everything!!! Any advice? |
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SAM
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Joined: 03 Mar 2001
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Location: Chicago
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| Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Sit down and talk to him to find out what it is that may be bothering him. Stress can be a factor. Sometimes there can be health issues that a visit to the doctor together may discover and tests may reveal. Our sexual desires are not always similar and while several times a week may seem normal to you, it may be different for your husband. |
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sweetness
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Joined: 25 Sep 2006
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| Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 10:10 am Post subject: Been there |
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When I was married to my ex husband he was not intrested in having sex with me. There are lots of factors involved some examples:
1. work environment
2. stress
3 family
4.friends
5. medication
If your spouse is taking any medication that can affect his sexual moods.
I tried candles, romantic dinners, music, nighties and nothing worked.
I found out that the medication he was on affected his sex drive. I was not upset with him after that becasue I knew it was not his fault.
Please consider if medication is involved it might be the medication and not your spouse.
It will get better.
The low sex drive was not the reason that I am divorced. We had a lot of problems in our marriage due to his mental illness. |
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