God's choice or ours? - Choosing a spouse

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Postby danielle » Mon Jul 01, 2002 2:45 pm

Does God give us the freedom to choose who to marry as long as we use biblical wisdom or does he bring the person he wants to marry into our lives? I've heard both sides of the coin.

Is he supposed to lead us to that special person? what if it's someone you already have known for a while, but then you become more than friends and begin to seriously date?

So what do you think?
danielle
 

Postby Davep » Mon Jul 01, 2002 3:04 pm

This is one of those bigger questions.

It's God's Plan? What is God's Plan? Do we have free will to chose and make our own decisions, or is everything pre-plan and we are just actors in God's Play?

Everything in our lives is for testing and to make us strong for our life in heaven. We must live for the line and not for the dot, not the here an now. You will go nuts trying to figure this one out; "Is this what God really wants me to do."

Don't you think that a loving God, wants us to enjoy our lives, who withever we pick? Don't you think God wants to enjoy what is has created for us. If one thing is appearant in the Bible, he doesn't want robots, he doesn't want yes-men.
Davep
 

Postby danielle » Mon Jul 01, 2002 8:12 pm

Yes! Definitely no robots here :D .
danielle
 


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