Emotional rollercoaster

proverbs356 · Newbie Joined: 06 Jul 2007 Posts: 14

Am I the only one that feels like separation (and going through divorce proceedings) is an emotional rollercoaster?

Maybe it's all the mixed messages my husband gives. I am so tired and weary tonight. My flesh is weak. And of course the enemy is taking full advantage of it. I almost told my husband to just end everything and call his bluff but the Lord held my tongue. I truly want to be reconciled but I can't handle this tonight. Please pray for me.

babycakes · Veteran Joined: 06 Mar 2006 Posts: 309 Location: In Prayer

I have lifted you up in prayer and will be happy to continue to do so.

Hang in there.

Isaiah 41:13 -
I am holding you by your right hand - I, the Lord your God. And I say to you, "Do not be afraid. I am here to help you."

rdsmith3 · Full Member Joined: 04 Oct 2006 Posts: 274 Location: NJ

I really do understand your pain, having been through a divorce.

In my current marriage, my wife threatened divorce many times when she was angry. I have grown to realize that she is hurt and afraid, and it is her way of trying to control the situation. The only response to the threat that works for us is something like, "I love you. I would hate for that to happen. I have faith that God wants us to have a great marriage, and it can happen. However, if you really believe that leaving me is the right course of action, then there is nothing I can do to stop you."

proverbs356 · Newbie Joined: 06 Jul 2007 Posts: 14

Thanks for the prayers.

I know without a doubt that my husband is divorcing me to test how much I love him. Although I would never threaten him with divorce, I know I have pushed him away in other ways.

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