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By Jim and Sheri Mueller


An Interview with author Margaret Feinberg about her book, The Sacred Echo.


Margaret, what’s the difference between an echo and a whisper?
You know, Jim, it’s interesting you ask that because the very first book that I ever wrote was called God Whispers, and it was based on that passage in 1 Kings 19 with Elisha on the mountainside and the Scripture just beautifully says that as God was coming near to speak to Elisha that He was not in the fire, the wind, or the earthquake but that he was in that gentle whisper. That very first book was about hearing the whispers of God—those times when God draws near in those unexpected ways. I have been finding over the last eight years, since I’ve read that book is that when God speaks so often it’s not just as a whisper, but it’s an echo. There’s something repetitive and persistent about the nature in which God speaks.

Scripture says that God was not in the earthquake, the wind or the fire, I have to ask, But who was?

J
ust as God used the earthquake, the wind and the fire to get Elisha’s attention, he’s often using the repetitive nature of events in our own lives to get our attention.

J
ust as God used the earthquake, the wind and the fire to get Elisha’s attention, he’s often using the repetitive nature of events in our own lives to get our attention.

The sacred echo is the persistent voice of God. It’s that moment when we wake in the morning, and maybe we’re spending time in Scripture, and a certain passage or a certain verse just pops off the page. Then we go to church on Sunday and—boom —here is a pastor or preacher teaching on the exact same passage. Then we have a conversation with a friend later up in the week, and maybe that topic comes up again. Then we flip open the page on our Christian calendar or day planner and—boom—there is the passage again. It’s the idea that God is so persistent in the way that he speaks, and at those times when we experience those reoccurring themes, we start to ask the question, Maybe, just maybe, God is speaking. What is He trying to say?

Margaret, what kinds of echoes are you hearing these days?
One of the things that I feel the Lord has been echoing into my heart is the word “gentle”—“just gentle, Margaret, gentle.” It was interesting because as I was aware of that theme of gentle, I’d see it in a book or a magazine that I was reading and that word would just pop off the page, or it would come up in a conversation or someone would just randomly, I appreciate your gentleness.

It forced me to go back into Scripture — which I think is the ultimate source for when we think we’re hearing from God — and I began to do a word study on the word “gentle”. One of the passages that really caught my attention was when Jesus was riding in on a donkey into Jerusalem before his death and resurrection. Jesus is described as gentle. I don’t think that word was by chance, or it was misplaced or it was an extra adjective that the writers had thrown in. It was a meaningful word to describe the attitude and the posture with which Jesus entered into his ultimate sacrifice and service for humanity.

I thought in my own life, God is inviting me to that spirit of gentleness that reflects Jesus, as I serve and as I live every day.

How does a person tune in to these echoes? I have to believe there are people saying, I don’t hear a thing. What’s with this echo business?
First of all, I think it’s important to have a humble heart and to ask God in prayer, God, if you are really out there and you are really trying to get my attention, please speak to me and give me eyes to see the ways you’re speaking and ears to hear and a heart that is sensitive to those moments.

S
econdly, it's no mistake the Bible is called “God’s Word.” It's that book that we are invited to dialogue with God in and through. I think we’ll never hear God's voice as clearly, concisely or as precisely as when we spend time in Scripture.

My encouragement is to possibly consider maybe getting a different translation of the Bible, one that’s easier for you to read. If you’re not a book person, I would encourage you to consider buying an audio Bible. Scripture is something that you can listen to while you’re driving in your commute, or before you go to bed at night. I think through intentionality of spending time in God’s Word, we’re going to find that there are certain stories that you just can’t shake out of your mind. There are certain passages, certain terms and phrases within God’s Word that are going to follow you. As they follow you, you’re going to find them popping up again and again and at those moments taking time to ask and say, God, is this from you? What are you trying to say to me ?

How does a person discern God’s voice in this busy world with all these distractions and static?

Great question. Again, primarily I think it is the Word. Scripture is the foundation and the filter for all that we hear from God. If something that we hear does not line up with Scripture, I think we should toss it out the window. With that said, there are certain things that we may feel a little nudging from God, and it may be not something that was clearly spelled out in Scripture. We may wonder, Well, that doesn’t go against God’s Word, but how do I know if that is from God?

At that point there are some pretty great questions that you can ask.

Number one: Does what I heard leave me with a sense of peace?

Jesus described himself as the Prince of Peace. The thing that God gives to us so often when he speaks is that sense of shalom, a sense of deep centered peace so that we know that it is from him. It’s a kind of peace that the world cannot provide or try to compete with.

A second question is: Is what I heard blanketed in love?

I think that’s really important because God will never ask us to do anything with a harmful or mean spirit, or with criticalness. God is not in the business of tearing down people. I believe He's in the business of redeeming and restoring mankind.

A third question to ask is: Does what I heard line up with the wise counsel in my life?

All of us need people who are older and wiser to provide guidance to speak up, to help figure out these things that we’re hearing.

My encouragement is that if you don’t already, find these people and make them a part of your life. Then, when you feel you're hearing from God, let them know. Does this sound right? Is this consistent with the vision of where God has been leading me, and what He’s done in the past? I think by asking those questions you can discern whether what you’re hearing is from God or not.            

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